Sins of Relationship
Relationships are a central part of life — with family, friends, co-workers, spouses, and even strangers we meet along the way. But when pride, the need for control, unforgiveness, or division take root in our hearts, those connections can become strained, painful, or distant. You might notice old patterns repeat themselves, conversations that escalate instead of heal, or a sense that peace feels just out of reach. These relational struggles don’t just affect others — they shape your inner life, your sense of belonging, and how you experience God’s presence in community.
Spiritually, how we relate to others is deeply tied to how we relate to God. When our hearts cling to self-protection, status, or unresolved hurt, it pulls us away from the humility, love, and unity Jesus models. The gospel doesn’t ignore the pain that comes from broken relationships, but it does offer a path forward — one where healing begins in the heart, where forgiveness becomes possible, and where God’s grace reshapes the way we connect with others. You don’t have to stay stuck in old patterns — Jesus invites you into restored relationships that reflect His love.
Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves. Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.
— Philippians 2:3–4
Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger… forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
— Ephesians 4:31–32
Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom.
— Proverbs 13:10